Matthew 10:34-39
34“aDo not think that I came to 1bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35“For I came to aset a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; 36and aa man’s enemies will be the members of his household.
37“aHe who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. 38“And ahe who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. 39“aHe who has found his 1life will lose it, and he who has lost his 2life for My sake will find it.